Different Aspects of Love Part 2 - New Radio Show July 6th and July 9th, 2011

Wednesday, July 6th, at 7:00PM, Pacific Standard Time and Saturday, July 9th, at 2:30PM Pacific Standard Time:


Join me in this journey of discovering the divine love which is the source of all nuances of love we feel in our lifetime. Each aspect of love can take us to the divine love, if we know how to open our heart to it.
In this radio show I will present the next 3 aspects of love from the ancient Greek tradition: erotic, romantic - love, love- friendship and love-harmony.

Join me and find out more!

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,
Delia

What is the Divine Love? Message from Archangel Raguel, June 30th, 2011

 

I wanted to know more about the divine love and I asked Archangel Raguel to give me more details about it. This is his answer:

"The divine love or God’s love for His entire creation is one of the greatest mysteries. It is the source of the entire creation.

In the beginning, there was nothing but the thought of God which manifested as creation through the divine love. The divine love is the primordial source of the creation and of all the states of happiness of human beings.

Imagine a river which flows. Where it comes from? A little stream appears from the mountain and then it gets bigger and bigger through the water of the rain which falls in that place. So is divine love: it’s the stream from which appear all nuances of human love. The human being lives through the force of this stream and develops adding to this stream her own nuances through which she contemplates the beauty of creation of God and of all His creatures.

Every human being has her own, unique way to feel love. She feels, creates, admires the beauty around her and when another human being joins her in this contemplation of beauty, they create a couple. Their love grows as much as the power of their contemplation of the beauty in the other being and the entire creation is.

You don’t have to limit your contemplation only to one aspect of creation, but all together. See the beauty and the sublime in the totality of God’s creation.

What you admire in a being you love, exists in you as well. There is nothing apart from you.

You recognize in this being the beauty within you and this is what you admire in her. She is your mirror and you see in the mirror those qualities which awaken your soul. This state of admiration is essential in love and without it you won’t be able to love anyone and anything.

When you go out in the nature, admire the purity of the scenery, but you will find this in you too. Everything exists inside your being: nature with its beauties, the cities with its people. Your being is a whole universe. You are very complex beings, endowed with remarkable qualities which you are not conscious about.

But beyond all these infinite nuances of perception, there is the source of everything which is God the Father. In Him you will find the divine love, which is the source of all your feelings of love. It is pure, omniscient (knows everything), omnipresent (exist everywhere) and capable of miracles. It knows everything and through it you can know everything too.

How can you discover the divine love?

Through the opening of your spiritual heart. There you will find it, in your Divine Self Atman (the spark from God the Father which exists in your spiritual heart), which is pure, immaculate, just like divine love.

Only when you reveal your Divine Self Atman in your being you will be able to love with a divine love, because only in this way you reach the source of all love and you will melt in the Heart of God.

You may think it’s difficult. You may think that you are restricted continuously by limitations and conditions outside your being. You lack self-confidence. This shows that you don’t trust your Self and the power of God. Trust is one of the secrets of success on this path. Trust Him, the Divine Father and He will show you the way! But the way is already imprinted in your heart.

Believe that you are divine, beautiful, free, harmonious human beings! Don’t listen to the voice of your ego which tells you to not trust anybody and anything! Listen to the voice of your heart and it will always show you the way to Goodness, Truth and Beauty."

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia

What is unconditional love? Message from Archangel Raguel, June 6th, 2011

The moment we fall in love is a moment of divine grace which brings so much happiness and fulfillment in our life! We feel like we don't even touch the earth anymore when we walk, we feel like we have wings and we can fly. Our soul feels lighter and often shines like a diamond with a sparkling light which can be seen by others. We smile and laugh more often, we feel like we have everything we ever wanted. We simply forget about ourselves and we want these moments of pure happiness to last forever. But many times our happiness seems to be conditioned by a lot of things: the physical presence of our lover (we don't feel the same when we are apart, even for a short time), his reactions, his mood, the time we spend or don't spend together, etc.
The question is how can we make these moments of pure happiness last? How can we love unconditionally, without expectations and limitations and still feel free and happy all the time?
We have to remember that it doesn't matter if these conditions are met or not, our love still exists.
For example, if our lover is away for an indefinite period of time, how would we feel? Unhappy, in most of the cases, miserable or even abandoned perhaps, although except for the space separation nothing else has changed in the relationship. In a situation like this we can ask ourselves a fundamental question: is our love different or is still the same? And the answer will reveal the depth of our love. If we feel the same kind of love, with the same intensity or even more, it means that our love is genuine and our happiness is not conditioned in any way by the distance. If our love weakens in time, that means it lacks profoundness and the test of separation was not passed. Either way, we can realize that we can still be happy and that our happiness doesn't depend on the exterior circumstances, but depends only on us.

There are fundamentally 2 different kinds of love: love-expectation and love-giving.
Love-expectation is the one in which we always expect something in return. We expect from our lover to make us happy, to love us as much as we love him, to call us, to send us text messages and emails every single day, to show us that he loves us and cares about us. We always expect proofs of his love. And we are never content with what we receive, because there is always something more which was not addressed or fulfilled. Our attitude in this kind of love is a passive one. Expectation itself is a passive attitude, is not creative, dynamic or transformational.

On the other side, love-giving is the one in which we give love, without expecting anything in return. We don't put any conditions to our lover, we don't expect him to call us or text us all the time, we respect his freedom, we respect his own needs and desires and we love him exactly the way he is. Separation from him is not a reason for sufferance, because we are aware of the love we feel and give all the time.
Our attitude in this kind of love-giving is an active one. Love-giving is dynamic, creative and transformational.

A friend of mine told me recently when I asked her what can she tell me from her experience about unconditional love? "I think that the moment we count exclusively on others in order to be happy, we will always be disappointed, because their reactions will never meet our expectations. That's why, I found that being happy with myself first, without necessarily expecting anything from others, is the first step in being really happy." So true! Do we really need to lean onto others in order to be happy and fulfilled all the time or this is something we have inside of us and once we discover it we are happy no matter what? I think that love is an amazing path of spiritual evolution, because it makes us grow, it makes us search, learn and find answers about ourselves, about life generally. And as long as this is a continuous transformation, this is all about evolution. We look for answers, we find some, we learn and we grow. We overcome our fears and finally we set ourselves free from any type of limitations. And this is evolution.

Because this is what unconditional love is: feeling happy and fulfilled without expecting anything in return, but instead being happy no matter the circumstances and giving love more than expecting to be loved.

And because I wanted to find out more about this from my divine friend, Archangel Raguel, I asked him how can we love with a divine love, without attachments and how can we learn freedom when we are in love?
This is his answer:

"God’s love is the Divine love. God is very close to you. You must look for Him in your heart and when you will discover Him there, you will recognize Him everywhere. The Divine love doesn’t expect anything in return and this is the way you should all love.

The ego always expects  something. When you will go towards God with all your being, the love you will feel then will uplift you and you will gain wings. Rise as high as possible and follow the light from your heart. Rising in this way will detach you from everything which is earthly and your love will be detached from earthly things.
When you renounce everything which is earthly, then you will gain EVERYTHING! You will gain the real life, the eternal love and the eternal life. When you renounce everything, you receive everything in return. This is a great mystery which God gave to people and it can be understood in time, not at once. Renouncing you will gain.
Renounce all expectations, calculations and plans. Live at least one day in full harmony with the Universe, and you will see that all you need you will receive.

To be free in love means to love everything as the creation of God and don’t put any limits to your love. Love everything, forgive everything, accept everything, embrace everything.

When you get closer to God you receive everything without even asking. You become detached when, in your ardent search for God, you forget about everything which surrounds you and in the same time you embrace everything with love.

When you accept everything in your life without any opposition, you gain freedom.

If the exterior circumstances are not according to your expectations, if the reactions of the people around you are not according to what you want, then sufferance and enchaining follow. When you accept all the reactions of the people around you exactly the way they are, without opposing them, then you become free.

Love all the creation of God! But first and foremost love God with all your being!"

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia

The Essence of Love

I found this explanation about the essence of love extraordinary and that's why I wanted to share it with you.
This is an excerpt from the book "The Secret Tantric Path of Love to Happiness and Fulfillment in a Couple Relationship by Yoga Professor Gregorian Bivolaru

“The energy of love comes from God the Father and brings in our inner universe an immense richness of states and nuances. We can say that the energy of love, which emanates from the heart chakra – Anahata chakra – contains an amazing multitude of specific secondary energies, which have their own specific frequencies of vibration. The most common and least refined of the energetic components of love, which circulate and manifest through the force center Anahata chakra, are the subtle exchanges of emotion between two people who love each other.

Besides this, there are also the elevated, pure, sublime, superior components of love, which can be associated with the so called “love of the soul.” These energies manifest the supreme divine love that represents beyond doubt the highest, purest, and most elevated components of love. To understand this revelation, imagine that love, as an energy which comes from God, contains in its manifestation seven different component energies. Out of these seven component energies, the seventh one is the divine, supreme, and most elevated component of the energy of love. This component, or this energy, is in close connection with our eternal spiritual essence. It is in connection with our supreme, immortal Self, Atman. Besides this component or supreme ultimate energy, there are six more component energies of love. Although these seven energies manifest simultaneously in our inner universe, in the microcosm of our being, we perceive only those we are already open to receive. Knowing this, we can say that there are seven different ways of feeling the energy of love within our inner universe. The last one, the seventh one, is only completely and profoundly awakened in us when we reveal the immortal Self Atman in our inner universe.

The supreme energy of love (the seventh component), represents the ultimate energy that manifests itself in our inner universe simultaneously with the other energies. This supreme energy of love, when felt intensely, deeply and fully, enables us to overcome our emotions, to go beyond attachment and jealousy, and to be spontaneously led towards the mysterious field of the mystical essence in which the Supreme Self Atman, the spark from God God the Father, is revealed to us.

The revelation that I present here, that love is made of seven distinct energies occurring simultaneously when we love, is essential and should be understood as such when we intensely, deeply, and completely experience unconditional love.

This revelation should not lead us to consider the other forms of love love’s energy to be useless, but it should enable us to understand that by refining and elevating our frequency of vibration, we shall come to predominantly feel an intense and overwhelming expression of the seventh component of the energy of love, which is its supreme aspect.

The revelation of the supreme immortal self, Atman, facilitates the prevalent experience in our inner universe of this supreme divine component of the energy of love. At the same time, the discovery of this supreme component in their inner universe makes the person spontaneously enter a state of divine ecstasy (Samadhi).

Because love comes from God and because God is above all love, we are put into deep, immense and instantaneous communion with Him through the mysterious energy of love. This explains why states of happiness, ecstasy, enthusiasm, joy, delight and exaltation occur within us when we are in love.

When we love unconditionally, intensely and deeply, we become full of joy and radiate a mysterious light that spreads for many miles around us, generating a magical, divine field and making the energy of love shine like a diamond in our hearts. The richness of these overwhelming heavenly states remains in our inner universe and is even amplified, providing we are open to it and do not block the flow of divine grace triggered in the microcosm of our being by the energy of love.”

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia

The Essence of Happiness

Many times I wondered where love and happiness come from and how can we love with a pure, detached, selfless, unconditional love? I even started an experiment with two friends, one week ago, to experience the detached, unconditional love, without expecting anything in return for 49 days in a row. Believe me, this is not easy. Because many times we expect from our lover the same kind of love we offer. We have expectations and we worry that we are not loved the way we would like to be loved. We have desires which transform into sufferance if they are not immediately fulfilled. We expect from our lover to make us happy, and we put our happiness in their hands. Is this real love or is just a mixture of desires, expectations and love? Is our happiness completely dependent on others or is entirely dependent on us? Is receiving love more fulfilling than giving love?

I started to look for answers to these questions and I found that my true nature is pure happiness and pure love; that my happiness doesn’t depend on the actions and reactions of anybody else, but me. I went deeper in this search, seeking for the essence of love and happiness and really wanting to experience them in their purest form.

So I did some research, reading the book “The mastery of Love” by Don Miguel Ruiz, in which I found a beautiful story about “The man who didn’t believe in love”.

In this story, there is this man who didn’t believe that love exists. He had his own experiences about love and he concluded that love is just an invention of the poets and of the religions who want to have control over people and make them believe. He even thought that love is addictive. When you get your daily dose of love, you feel happy. But what happens when you don’t? Then the fear that you won’t receive love anymore makes you controlling and even manipulative. So he told everyone he met that what humans call love is nothing but a fear relationship based on control.

Then one day, he met a woman who too believed that love doesn’t exist. She had her own experiences in her relationships and she also concluded that we look for love, we open our hearts and we become vulnerable, just to find selfishness. That hurts, so this will repeat no matter how many relationships we have, the same thing happens again, so what’s the point of looking for love anymore? So love doesn’t really exist.

So they realized that they are so much alike and they became the best friends ever! They respected each other and they never put each other down. They were happy exactly the way they were. There was no envy, or jealousy, no control or possessiveness. They loved being together, because they had a lot of fun and they were very happy!

But one day, the man had the weirdest idea: Maybe what I feel for her is love!

And he told her about his idea. She said that she had the same idea, but she didn’t want to tell him about it because she knew that he didn’t believe in love.

So they concluded that maybe love does exist, but it isn’t what everybody thought it was. So they started to live together and they became lovers and it was amazing that their relationship didn’t change.

Until one night, when the man’s heart was so full with love that a miracle happened: he was looking at the stars and he saw the most beautiful one, and his love was so big that the star started to come down right into his hand and his soul merged with the star. He was intensely happy and he couldn’t wait to go to the woman and put the star in her hands to prove his love for her. As soon as he put the star in her hands, she had a moment of doubt, and the star fell from her hands and broke into millions of pieces.

Now there is an old man walking around the world saying that love doesn’t exist and there is a beautiful old woman waiting for a man, shedding a tear for the paradise that once she had in her hands, but for one moment of doubt it was lost forever.

Don Miguel Ruiz concludes in his book:

“Who made the mistake? Do you want to guess what went wrong?

The mistake was on the man’s part in thinking he could give the woman his happiness. The star was his happiness and his mistake was to put his happiness in her hands. Happiness never comes from outside of us. He was happy because of the love coming out of him. She was happy because of the love coming out of her. But as soon as he made her responsible for his happiness, she broke the star because she could not be responsible for his happiness.

If you take your happiness and put it in someone’s hands, sooner or later she is going to break it. If you give your happiness to someone else, she can always take it away.

Then if happiness can only come from inside of you and is the result of your love, you are responsible for your happiness. We can never make anyone responsible for our own happiness.”

So here was the answer I was looking for! Happiness comes from inside of us, not from outside! As Eckhart Tolle also says, pure happiness is our true nature. We kind of look for reasons to be unhappy, many times in our life, but what we miss seeing and understanding is that we are truly happy right here and now, in the present moment! Really, if you take a moment and you stop everything you are doing right in this moment, you close your eyes and you merge deeply inside of your heart, what do you think you will discover there? That you are perfectly happy right in this moment! And the love you are always looking for outside of you, seeking and seeking and waiting for it to come in your life, is again inside of you! And you know what will happen next, after you realize these two important things? That when you give this love to someone and when you share this love and happiness with someone you love, just sharing, giving, without expecting anything in return, this love and happiness will double and even triple! Because now there is not only one happiness and love, there is more and even more, each day! And as long as you don’t put any restrictions to your love or happiness, it will flow uninterrupted forever and it will grow every day! So from this moment on, you are no longer dependent on the actions and reactions of somebody else, you are entirely responsible for your own happiness and you are in the flow of life, not beside it.

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia

Different Aspects of Love - New Radio Show on June 29th, 2011

I have a new radio show coming up on Wednesday, June 29th, 2011, at 7:00PM Pacific Standard Time:

Different Aspects of Love - Part 1

In this show I will present the first two forms of love from a scale of 7 resonances of love, according to the ancient Greek tradition: Love - Desire and Love - Passion.

Although there are different aspects of love through which we express what we feel and according to the way we understand love in our own unique way, behind all these aspects of love, there is a deep and profound love which is the divine love, Agape. Through the deepening of the love we feel here and now, on the level where we are right now, through the conscious understanding of this love, we can reach exactly in this moment the source of love from which all other aspects of love appear, the Divine love.

Join me and find out more!

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia 

The 5 Love Languages - Part 2 - New Radio Show on June 22nd and June 25th

 

On Wednesday, June 22nd, at 7:00PM Pacific Standard Time and Saturday, June 25th, at 2:30PM Pacific Standard Time:

The 5 Love Languages - Part 2

If you want to learn more about the way you can express love and receive love in your relationship, join me and find out more about the 5 love languages, in the second part of this presentation. 

I honor the divinity within you! Namaste!

With love,

Delia